View Full Version : DO u prefer cyber realtion ships or either?
Ok,
here we go with some new topics!
Maybe uve discussed this be4 but i wasnt in here!
What do you people think about people who get married from internet!
and do u bellive that two people can build a life after knowing each other from internet!
Do you think that their life will continue normal or!
i know a freind who's gonna get married to a girl he got to know off the net!! i was like..what the..you've only known her a year ago,,and only met her twice b4 asking her hand for marrige!! but they seem to love each other! personally i don't believe in cyber relationships and don't think that it would end in a nice way!!
i think yes.. coz i know many ppl here in oman got married from the internet..and they are living together in peace, they can build their life, coz they already knowing each other from the net and then ofcours on the phone and live..and if they really love each other deeply they'll continue their life normaly without any problems. and i have a big proof , my cousin got married from from the internet! and they are living now normaly and they love each other big time.
Well i know many as well got married and continued their life normally and happly.
Well if u thinked about it it has go0d sides and bad ones!
sometimes i think internet helps alot to Express what they think of what they feel easly! I mean ya there are many lies that goes around but here am talking about the true thing that can happen between the couples.
Well it differs but i think mostly or i can say all the cases that i know succeed in it.
by the way did u know that i knew many of my cousins that i had no idea about from internet! how sad but true :D
Gosh..really really sad..how come u dont know your cousins guys???
i know alot of ppl dont know their uncles and cousins??? how can they live without knowing them??? in my opinion we should all know our familys from A to Z ... its really good .. and it taste different than your other relations!!
anyhow.. it is happening these days alot!!:rolleyes:
Oh ya am0or how sad huh! what can i do! its not my fault.
Am doing my best after knowing them!
some of them i was not so close with them i know them but not that close like nowadays!
well a hint there are some that i knew from sabla!
Weird haaaa ehhehe,,
Sad but true :(
well what do u think of opening a thread about this problem! :gap:
Snow^Lady
21-07-02, 02:06 AM
Well definately there are plenty of people getting married after knowing eachother from the internet. I know three couples met through the internet and are married now and very happy now:gap:
Yes...it's true what all said above....i myself can't get married like this...i mean how can you fall in love with a person who you don't know in person?also how do you know that all what is he/she saying is true???..anyhow this is my personal view or opinion about htis.
mushawash
25-07-02, 02:57 PM
nice topic najaaa7 :D
i loved a girl which i got to know from the net,but when a friend knew about that, she thought i am a :6: nd said u r just mushawash :D..
by the way what is the different between the way our parents got married nd people who get married from internet?? :D
Seniora
25-07-02, 03:28 PM
its definately different between our parents marriage. time goes on, things change, i think most of us who are against marriage through the net, would change their mind, because its becomin common.
and human attitude, the more common something is, the more we trust in that thing, and there fore accept it
so i think its just a matter of time, before marriage through the net is going to be a very normal thing.
what is going to make this common, is nowadays, we find people who are tooo confident, or who arent confident at all. and personally i think people who dont have confidence in themselves, are more, so its hard for them to develop a face to face relationship, and so they turn to the net, and so relationships become common.
In addition to what was said above i do not see why not? .. it does not matter how u knew your love ..what matters is knowing her/him in a cool way to be together for life. so yes and yes aslong as it ends in marrige .
i know two couples whom are married now , one with children and i was the only one to know a bout ...:D ..
so i do agree with cyper relationship providing it is conducted by well mature individuals and not for the sake of MUGAZALGEYAH hahahah:D
MamboBraziliano
25-07-02, 11:03 PM
Let me first tell you that my eX GF & me got together through the net, and NO begining with a chat had nothing to do with our break up.
We were normal friends through chat only, after two years we were very comfortable to each other and we started talking on the phone occassionally during the third year which leaded us to date exactly three years after we first chatted. Funny enough we got together before even seeing eachother! It was a big risk -at least from my side ;) -
Getting to know a person who might share your life with through the net is one of the best ways. coz looks wont have any influence on both of you and its a good opportiunity to get close to the real personality.
Adios
4-ever-young
26-07-02, 02:28 AM
I mean i dont see why ppl feel that meeting someone and falling in love thru the net wont work?
The way i see it is that the net is just another way of meeting ppl and if u happen to fall in love on the way well good for you..but it doesnt mean that ur relationship wont work just because u met thru the net
el7ilwa
26-07-02, 07:54 PM
sorry but I don't agree with u guys:( . It maybe works but not in our arabic muslimes countries. Because most of the men here think that when a girl agreed 2 talk 2 him through the iternet & make a relationship with him she can make another relationship with another 1 so how can he trust her. That is mean he is only playing with her & yse her 2 have fun only & the poor girl is dreaming of the true love:sorry: so it doesn't work seccesfully here so girls be careful & don't belive ( I couldn't sleep last night cause I was thinking of u or I feel comfortable when I am talking 2 u );)
It just my opinion
Good .. nice to know many opinion's... and this is your way of thinking el7ilwa...at the end its just something upto u all..:)
Miss Naughty
27-07-02, 12:09 AM
about me .. i feel it works but that doesnt mean i agree with it totally ..
i know also lots of ppl got married this way and when u see them now very happy :) and of course living normal life..
B.I: you've only known her a year ago,,and only met her twice b4 asking her hand for marrige!!
i know u r going to say no but tell me what about arranged marriges dont u think that ,, they dont know each other just from what the families says u take the risk .. and here just from knowing each other personally ..
i cant say i dont beleive in it coz its already happened and as one of u said it started to be common .. but im telling u that doesnt mean i agree with this kind of relationship ...
and el7ilwa,, it happened here in our countries and i dont think coz a girl talking to a guy in the internet it means that she is playing or neither him .. maybe they'll be honest from the begning that this relationsship is only for a period and to be FRIENDS only .. not something else (what lead to marrige life!!)
Bimzoori
27-07-02, 01:03 AM
I tend to agree with el7ilwa here...
And another point is that, when you get to know someone thru the net, you would be the best of yourself..same thing goes for the other person.. you can shape your personality, and only show the positive traits of you & also pretend to be a different person!!
Marriage is a life long contract, and I think it would be risky if you chose your partner based on his/her personality through the net !!
4-ever-young
27-07-02, 11:38 AM
Bimmi said:
"And another point is that, when you get to know someone thru the net, you would be the best of yourself..same thing goes for the other person.. "
Bimmi i think that giving the best of your self is something u do without realising no matter how u met...You will always bring out your good side first..ad u can pretendtobe a differetn person too...is doesnt mean that by talking or meeting someone u cant be someone else...
It's just another form of communicating people...
like mail (definitely romantic but not done at all in Oman), fax, SMS, telephone, cell phone, etc... the Net is just another way of communicating...
If you are insincere and flirt with someone on the net, you can also do it on the phone, cell phone ... etc. So I don't buy that arguement.
It also, like all forms of communication allows you to be more or less honest... because you control the parameters...
silent_captured
13-02-03, 03:00 AM
What do you think about the serious realtion ships from the internat! yani if a girl who is your friend..sister any one told u there is a guy i love or met from the net he likes me and i liked him..things went well..not they are 2 in so deep love they were freinds first now lovers some plans about marrying..but stilll u aint convince or maybe it is a new way...so tell me what do u think do u like cyber realtion ships or either!?
Navy_boy
13-02-03, 01:15 PM
I don't see it that bad ,, when getting to know a girl through the net & love her while their family or some of them know about us ... & planning for marriage is processing ,,,, the only thing which should be considered that u ask about her & family...rememberin the " No Touch " rule ,,, :D
but at the end ,,, it is not like buying a car ,, it is life time matter ,, u should be careful & choose the right person .. better if u ask for advices from married ppl ,, they can help u a lot,,
Morbid_Angel69
13-02-03, 02:35 PM
:kewl: It happens! Its possible to meet someone online who you really like and really fall in love with. I just think alot of young girls these days neeed to be more careful because there are alot of stalkers around and you never know whos on the other end of the computer screen.
I met my first boyfriend online and i was with him for 3 years...so yea it is possible! :fire:
Navigator
13-02-03, 04:00 PM
why not !!
It's possible ,,and it happens !
As long as their intention is clear and it's getting marriage then i would say nothing wrong with it !!
I met my first boyfriend online and i was with him for 3 years...so yea it is possible!
It's different case i guess ,,BF/GF emm dosn't sound ok 4 me !!
By the was what numbver is ur current BF as u said u get to know ur 1st one by internet ?!!
4-ever-young
13-02-03, 05:28 PM
it is ok by me..as the internet is just another means of communications..i mean ppl fall in love to ppl that they have met on the phone..or on the street..so i guess it is the same..although very risky..but isnt everything?!
of course it's Frowned upon ..in our society..cyber relationships and all!! but as many of you already said..it's just another way of communicating with people! :).. and so..i see nothing wrong with it ! if it's the way am gonna meet my future wife..then so be it! who knows what the future holds for us. :)
Morbid_Angel69
14-02-03, 01:42 PM
:fire: i dont have a bf now for ur info okay
Navigator
14-02-03, 04:17 PM
Originally posted by Morbid_Angel69
:fire: i dont have a bf now for ur info okay
easy tigerah :wink:
does it really happen in our omani society?!!
i didnt think so and i never came across one in oman, but when i was in england i saw it happening to one of my mates over there, an english one. i think they are planning to get married. the thing is he was desperate then and thats why he turned to the internet to find someone that cares for him.
so it happens but.......
peace:gap:
Morbid_Angel69
14-02-03, 06:06 PM
:D It happens and alot of the time these kind of relationships do work as long as the peopke know exactly what they are doing and what they are looking for.
One thing i do not agree with is young girls getting online looking for boyfriends because at a young age they are vulnerable and men tend to take advantage of them for this reason.:duh:
do they? naaaaaaaaah they dont!!
tell me how i wanna try it!:gap:
:o True ..
I totally say yes! It does exist
No Limits
Love is love, there is nothing more to it than that. I'm not sure that one shoudl call it 'internet love' because it actually develops as such later :) ,,,,,,,,with 'internet love' you must be cautious...but I think that it can be a very powerful thing because there is no physical limitation or physical attraction...you get to know the person because of their words, their personalities, and who they are. Often times in the 'real world' relationships are first based on physical attraction to another, or location, or convenience, and the actual getting to know someone for who they are is last.
but i believe the physical aspect of a relationship/friendship is vital... :wink:
one thing about "internet love" as u said LOTUS is that it starts the other way around. i mean u like the personality of someone from the way he or she talks and thigs about that person before u see that person.
i dunno if this is a good thing or not. however, it is a way that doesnt lead to bad results.
:gap:
Morbid_Angel69
16-02-03, 03:39 PM
Well modi i guess that is what unconditional love is based on. You love them for who they are and what they have to offer in their hearts - not what they look like etc.
Physical appearence isnt everything - its 30% important while selecting a partner, the other 70% is based on their true selves
Navy_boy
16-02-03, 05:19 PM
Originally posted by Morbid_Angel69
Well modi i guess that is what unconditional love is based on. You love them for who they are and what they have to offer in their hearts - not what they look like etc.
Physical appearence isnt everything - its 30% important while selecting a partner, the other 70% is based on their true selves
agree with the 1st part :wink:
but u said physical appearence is 30% important ,, & what everybody notice is this thing more important in some cases coz it makes u not looking at others ((more beautiful))
about their true selves ,,, it is important to know everything about yr partner ,, it is not only u love his/her through the net or what ever,, & want to marry ,,
know everything i mean her behaviour ,,her reputation ,,her family ,, through ppl around her ,,
to get to know a girl through the net ,, it happenes a lot & fall in love ,,but in some cases it break up & finish very soon coz they discover in their partnet things they don't like ..
Morbid_Angel69
16-02-03, 07:28 PM
:fire: If you love someone, you should be checking out other girls or other guys! You should love the one you are with for everything that he/she is , and having to look at other girls or guys because your partner isnt "beautiful" enough is absolutely absurd! Your partner would be better off with someone who respects him/her enough not to go and look at other people! :angre:
wow :duh: its gettig hot in here....
calm down dudes!
i bet u ll make a good couple. at least u will always have something to talk about! :D :D :gap:
i dont think look is worth only 30% .. i would say it is 50%. u might like some one for his/her personality but u cant stand looking at that person because the way they look!!:gap: :kewl:
Morbid_Angel69
17-02-03, 10:24 AM
I dont agree with you modi!
Because if you love the persons heart and soul and personality, then in your eyes you should see them as beautiful!
The one that you care about and love and like should make that person "beautiful" when you see them.:cool:
I mean how rude is it to say "I CANT STAND LOOKING AT YOU!"
and how mean is it to even be thinking of that!
The way the person is inside (if its 'beautiful') then they should glow with beauty on the outside as well :wink:
silent_captured
20-02-03, 11:07 PM
hey people...i'm back after a school recovery..sorry if i didnt answer about my topics soon...buti was amazed by the number that replayed and reviewed..any way..i do totaly first agree with navy boy..than stronger with Morbid_Angel69 in all her talkings vice versa for her beutiful faces..actually what made me open this topic is that i am living the same sitiuation..and i wanted to know if it is rare for people who met at the net to be that well al hamd allah that long..but than i found in most cases, el mohem.. i am totaly sure that if most if this factors do exist ..they could be well together:
1)Understand each other.
2)respect.
3)Planning to have a serious realtion ship not a game.
4)Be open minded and a good listener.
.......Actually there are just to many factors and also it is nearly to an ordinary relation ship..but i do disagree in something that modi said..is that physical shape takes 50% of the whole one hundres..wel actually the percentage could be lesser and still there wont be a problem..cause will u prefer a woman with great beauty but she is such a selfish person or bad temred or and or and or...OR a fine person woth a great listner who can give u her ear and love u truly from all her heart..actually it is different from case to case..and thank u all for your great participition..
abeer
DeSerTDesTroYeR
17-03-03, 05:05 PM
silent_captured said
What do you think about the serious realtion ships from the internat! yani if a girl who is your friend..sister any one told u there is a guy i love or met from the net he likes me and i liked him..things went well..not they are 2 in so deep love they were freinds first now lovers some plans about marrying..but stilll u aint convince or maybe it is a new way...so tell me what do u think do u like cyber realtion ships or either!?
hmm...its not a matter of preference..its more...like...another mean or media...that a relationship can built through....
if a sister or friend told me about such story...i'll be happy for her..but ...advice her to keep her mind open...and notice any little detials..which she might of been missing.....
what i mean...no matter how close...2 can get online....its still..a non-contact relationship...which means....its not quite complete...
lets say...there are those couple...together for a year..or 2...then they decide to get married..and finally time to meet....once they meet...it would take maybe 5 mins...and they would discover that they werent quite right..about what they thought they felt.....
it doesnt have to be the looks....its more of a personality .impression....
online...you get to know someones personality through them..only... but in reality..you get to see their personality with your own eyes..and thats quite a big difference.....
probably a couple......can get as close..as 60% to know each other...the rest 40% is a mystery...they can only discover..once they decide to be serious..and take it to the normal....start....marriage....
of course...they shouldnt jump into marriage...probably...few official..meetings...should help to confirm...and give light..to the mysterious 40% :wink:
hmm..looks......over personality...wasnt there a thread about this once upon a time..:rolleyes: anyway....personality should rule...more then 50% of our prospective of the other person....hmm 70% sounds perfect...:p ...soo a 30% for the looks..is quite fair enough....though its issential....cause its adds up the 100% overall...opinion..of someone.
Do you believe in love through internet? can you trust someone you can't see? would you go out with someone you chatted or chatting with? why if yes and why not accept this new method of love connection? have any weird stories wanna share with us or bad experince? maybe some happy ending! any way lets hear from all :D
I'm one the people who believe in love through the internet... Even if the person didn't get to meet the other person on the other side of the conversation...
But one of the problems in my oppinion, is to keep that up for a long time... Which is wrong and which I don't accept... Because in the end, one day, you'll get a weird feeling like: who the hell am I talkin to...? :rolleyes:
It happened... :p
Nice idea Azure, I'd like to hear for the other members aswell.. :)
I do believe in getting to know a person better through the internet, the important thing is that you get to see that person and KNOW for sure that the person is not lying to you!
But I don't think that I can completely trust a person I've never seen, but only chat with online, I might trust, but to an extent, why put hopes and then find out that the person was just lying to you, it's easy, people do that all the time. I'm not trying to generalize this because you can truely find pure love, all I'm saying is that you have to be careful who you're talking to!
I think that the internet or chatting is just a gate way.. a place where u might just meet the person for the first time...as appose to if that person was ur co-worker or colleague or whatever ... but at some point u have to take that relationship u build to the next level... it cant remain online...
so I think its two different things... if u keep that relationship just an online fling then that isn’t love for sure… but if u take that person whom u have meet online and build a normal stable relationship outside the internet then maybe it could lead to true love…
when u love someone it isn’t only about how this person interacts with u and how nice this person is to you… but on how this person responds and interacts with his/her environment and other ppl…
I guess it does exist for sure - as i know few people who ended up getting married after knowing each other online.
I believe it is just as Wicked said - you can know ppl here online but than your friendship would jsut remain here online... but there are times where you extend a lil bit more to know that person .. it just depends on what has attracted you to him/her
Everything is possible - it just depends on how you want things and what you want!
Capricorna
29-08-03, 05:01 PM
Do you believe in love through internet?
I do , i know some people who end uo gettin married :)
can you trust someone you can't see?
Hmmm not really, but i guess trusting a person will lead the relationship Further and you'll end up seeing him..
would you go out with someone you chatted or chatting with?It depends , if i've been chatting to him for such along time and i trust , then i don't think its a bad idea + people get to express their feelings throught the internet instead of sayin it face to face which is a bit hard ..
In most cases people lie on line and what if you find out all that was between you and the person you were chatting with was just one big lie? What does u do?
I have stories where girls were completely deceived by men and I’ve known a 20 something years old guy who went out with a teenager girl!
The question is can you trust someone you can't see?
grasshopper
29-08-03, 05:37 PM
Yeh i believe in it. and experienced it.
I chatted to a girl for a few months that i met on the net. Then we started calling each other. and before we had even seen pictures of each other we met up and hit it off instantly.. I think the internet breaks down barriers and people tend to be more relaxed and truthfull in the way they speak to each other.
Friendship , love .. online.. its all possible and i dont see why so many dont believe in it. of course i dont trust the person completly by just chatting to her, and it would take a few meetings or phone calls to actually believe that she does infact exist! :p
Do you believe in love through internet?
Yeah i do believe, and it is happening.
can you trust someone you can't see?
Well...if u are saying love only on the net and they didnt see each other then that doesnt call love, coz everyone can act that he/she is good and cool and beautiful and pretty and he/she is not all of that.
but if they met and they clicked and suit each other, then it might be love.
would you go out with someone you chatted or chatting with?
Yeah, why not.. i met many ppl from the net and they are a good friends, plus the internet is a way to communicate with each other like the phone or anything else..
Benz$Babe
30-08-03, 01:16 AM
yeah i do believe love and friendship can happen thru net ... i know alot of cases ... who even end up married
good luck to y'all
Personaly i dont trust people in the internet because i heart alot of scaring stories about girls have realationship with guys and end with disaster.
For this i dont dare to make any relation through the internet:blush:
Blossom
30-08-03, 01:17 PM
i don't think ppl can fall in love on line, and you can never trust someone you never met. but we hear about ppl getting married through the net all tyhe time.
Libellula
30-08-03, 03:50 PM
Well I believe that you can meet someone and get to know them quite well online, and then you can take it further on from that.
You can't trust everyone you meet online, though. I guess this online relationship would work if you saw someone once and got their email, then you started chatting and then you meet up or something.
As for the safety issue, not sure about that.
Cerulean
30-08-03, 11:40 PM
Do you believe in love through internet?
Yeah... But you have to talk on the phone and meet before you actually "fall in love" with the person.
can you trust someone you can't see?
No, unless you've met or they are close to someone you really know.. then maybe you can trust them to a certain degree. Otherwise, no way.
would you go out with someone you chatted or chatting with?
Maybe..
Persian Queen
05-10-03, 08:29 AM
Guys i really want your opinion in this cause i saw many ppl beleive that the problem is the get into things they dont have to be in it. I mean this has happened and i really got suprised that two couples were dating each other for about 4 years here in oman and finally got married to each other, but not always happy endings. I think it is so commun that I brought it up... let us seee
My Dear Silk Soul....
I first met my fiancee over the internet. I didn't see her, and I didn't even know what and where is she from or anything about her, since we started talking to each other for a long time we realised that we can't stand missing each other like this.
However later I started working as part time in McDonalds, and earned some of my own cash to buy her a wedding ring that when we decided to get together finally after convincing both our parents about it. On 13 February I left Melbourne, Australia to Kula Lumpur, Malaysia.
As of 14 February 2003 on valentines day I arrived and I gave her the biggest surprise of her life which was me, and then of course later after sometimes I gave her the ring, I mean I put her the ring. This is another story for your records of online sucess. It actually depends on both of the members of the pair of love birds. If they're serious no matter what they will succeed I think, but if it was only single sided meaning the girl or the guy just wanted time pass or kind of sexual relation then Allah ma3ahum... I don't know what to say.....
That's all Folks
Amir Al-Balushi™
RareDiamond
05-10-03, 09:44 AM
Definately it works, my friend got married after meeting her husband (now) through the net. They got to know to eachother for a year and now they are happiley married. :D
Everything possible, at the same time not all men will accept to marry a net girl.
Capricorna
05-10-03, 12:55 PM
Originally posted by the_killer
My Dear Silk Soul....
I first met my fiancee over the internet. I didn't see her, and I didn't even know what and where is she from or anything about her, since we started talking to each other for a long time we realised that we can't stand missing each other like this.
However later I started working as part time in McDonalds, and earned some of my own cash to buy her a wedding ring that when we decided to get together finally after convincing both our parents about it. On 13 February I left Melbourne, Australia to Kula Lumpur, Malaysia.
As of 14 February 2003 on valentines day I arrived and I gave her the biggest surprise of her life which was me, and then of course later after sometimes I gave her the ring, I mean I put her the ring. This is another story for your records of online sucess. It actually depends on both of the members of the pair of love birds. If they're serious no matter what they will succeed I think, but if it was only single sided meaning the girl or the guy just wanted time pass or kind of sexual relation then Allah ma3ahum... I don't know what to say.....
How Sweet :love:
Well I believe that People can fall in love wether its online , Talking on the phone and At First Sight ....
X-press
05-10-03, 01:58 PM
Originally posted by IceTea
Everything possible, at the same time not all men will accept to marry a net girl.
And vice-versa Icy...not all women will accept to marry a net boy :)
Silky SouL, I believe love over the net can be possible, as two people get the chance to chat and know each other better.
However, I feel it is safer is these two person somehow know each other a bit outside of the net, then if they have never seen each other before and are complete strangers. It can be very risky if not dangerous. You can fall in love with a person's words, but when it comes to real commitment, you need more then that...
Blue_Chi
05-10-03, 02:34 PM
There are always exceptions and rare cases as we all know, if you take it generally and think of the estimated percentage of all the relationships that started through the internet or through phones it would be clear that these online relationships are a waste of time. I don't want to be very cynical, but most of the guys just lie and play around with four or five girls at the same tiem until one of them hooks up so that he can go out with her to have some fun for sometime, girls do the same. E-love is real, you could happen to meet someone online and fall in love with him, but that is so rare to happen.
RareDiamond
05-10-03, 02:49 PM
Originally posted by Blue_Chi
E-love is real, you could happen to meet someone online and fall in love with him, but that is so rare to happen.
As for me, I believe it happens ALOT not rarely. I know a few whom met through the net and they love eachother madly and some are married and some are going to get married.
hi,
i belive that it is possible..........i have a friend of mine she is madley in love with some one she met online and he is the samemadley in love with her, that they can not stop talking to each other not for a day........and they have met already ........but the funny part is she is in Uk and he is in Oman:D
but still love line is passing through them.......
which i hope they will end in a good and happy ending.inshallah:weep: :color:
Originally posted by X-press
And vice-versa Icy...not all women will accept to marry a net boy :)
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Exy a net boy will have more chances compared to a net girl ;)
Endure Whisper
05-10-03, 04:54 PM
the_killer, that was a sweet story :love:
Anyway, I do believe in this, and I just think it's perfectly all right as long as both, the man and the woman, accept that fact.
However, sometimes it's all illusions and one of them turns the whole thing down which does happen, so my advice for all who are going through this, double check on how serious your partner is.
Well, Areej and who all said to becareful are right, and I am totaly with Blue Chi for what he said below :
There are always exceptions and rare cases as we all know, if you take it generally and think of the estimated percentage of all the relationships that started through the internet or through phones it would be clear that these online relationships are a waste of time. I don't want to be very cynical, but most of the guys just lie and play around with four or five girls at the same tiem until one of them hooks up so that he can go out with her to have some fun for sometime, girls do the same. E-love is real, you could happen to meet someone online and fall in love with him, but that is so rare to happen.
As my intention was this with all the girls i knew online to be very honest, but suddanly my whole life changed just because of one girl... That's why I LOVE HER SO MUCH. She changed so many things in me, from a person who came to play to a person who came to study, from a person who was a play boy to a person who loves only one, from a person who I was in the past to a person who I am now. Even my parents said I've changed a lot!!! My friends and so many of my other friends said I've changed a lot, even my grandmother before she passed away she said I am happier than I was ever before... That is the most reason which made me make my decision to MARRY THIS GIRL. Not only that, I only knew this girl in last July till December and my granny passed away and I'm so sad that she couldn't be there for my marriage which will be held INSHA ALLAH on 14 February of NEXT YEAR, SO ALL WELCOME TO MALAYSIA....... don't ask me for ticket :D
Amir Al-Balushi™
BliNd_MelOn
05-10-03, 07:56 PM
It is very possible... and it works.. Believe me.. :rolleyes:
why do so many ask such questions? and why do so many get all iffy when they find out u started a relationship from the net? its really pathetic to be honest.. and those who think its all bad then they themselves shouldnt use the net at all.
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i say there's nothing wrong with it at all.. and getting to know someone from the net..is just like getting to know him/her from anywhere else .
I already opened a thread similar to this here Cyber Love (http://www.englishsabla.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=15157&highlight=online+love)
Homeless
06-10-03, 12:56 AM
yes I do believe in love by net or phone!
Benz$Babe
06-10-03, 04:38 AM
yah i do believe in it!
although its not the innocent romeo n juliet type of love!!:bang:
I don't believe in it. How can you trust someone you haven't seen in your life? sometimes you can't even trust someone you know!!!!
I know alot of cases where girls fall in love with guys online, they end up getting nothing out of it. Well they get something from it... getting hurt, that's for sure. And even if they end up by getting married you can never know for how long it would last.
It is Possible, I believe so.
and it has already happend to many people world over and it has worked out well, And dont be Surprised it has already happening HERE in Sabla, and few couples got married by knowing each other through SABLA.. Please dont ask their name as I wont tell..:D :color:
Blossom
06-10-03, 12:40 PM
love by phone...mmmmmmmmmmm
it depends on the person himself, and how he wants to end it. girls will marry someone they met on the phone ir net, but guys won't :duh:
On the net.??? why not.......
Since I joined sabla........I got 3 marriage proposals so far........and one used car deal.......
Zsia!!
fatak
Blue_Chi
06-10-03, 05:31 PM
I have given this another thought, there are people who had a successful marriage and have met each other through the internet, this does not mean that there whole relationship was through the internet, but the very first time they knew each other was through the internet, samething with people who knew each other on the phone initially, but have got out and seen each other, and after some several outdoor dates, they did get married.
I think that sort of relationship is normal, but for someone to decide getting married to a person that they have NEVER seen in their lives is not possible I think, it can happen, but will never be successful.
4-ever-young
06-10-03, 10:08 PM
i have merged all the topics of cyber love into one...
Solmaaz
07-10-03, 05:16 PM
Hi All
Yes I believe in it and yes it does work. My best friends are all online friends and I love them to bits.
I know a few people from Oman who are also engaged to girls they met on the net so it does work.
I guess Distance makes the Heart grow fonder.
Scorpio27
16-10-03, 02:28 PM
AM I LATE !!!:rolleyes:
Virtual relation
How much impact Virtual relationship has in our life ?
Don't you think it's near real ?
I think the virtual contacts with person brings people closer and puts some emotion in return gradually.
I may be wrong, If some one can understand my sayings please Re-quote it for me.
Thanks
I was in general disc pal alone :blush:
http://www.englishsabla.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16497 :eek:
People are funny... They are scared of what they don't understand.
Someone who's never made a friend on the net will never accept the idea.
H-Highness
18-10-03, 03:35 AM
Falling in love in the net is big RISK.
Yes..very very big risk.......but since I saw your pic.......H Highness......I have sick with love and cry all the time.......
Salaam
fatak
H-Highness
18-10-03, 03:54 AM
lol Fatak
Did I take your breathe away :p
Scorpio27
18-10-03, 01:54 PM
Originally posted by Bimzoori
I tend to agree with el7ilwa here...
And another point is that, when you get to know someone thru the net, you would be the best of yourself..same thing goes for the other person.. you can shape your personality, and only show the positive traits of you & also pretend to be a different person!!
Marriage is a life long contract, and I think it would be risky if you chose your partner based on his/her personality through the net !!
Hey, how do u know the secrets :eyes: of net cultur ? Just kidding , never mind. I do agree with u. This is true that often we try to furnish ourself as nice as possible. This is natural.
But after the net meeting you can go for prctical friendship and can try to judge each otherand can come to an conclusion. Is not it ??
:blush: :D
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