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X-press
12-02-03, 01:45 AM
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Answer these questions and we will tell you how jealous you are...;)

SCENARIO #1:

Your partner is in another room. The phone rings and you answer it. It's a voice of the opposite sex (you don't recognize it) and the caller wants to talk to your partner. It appears they are on a first name basis.

1) How would it make you feel?

2) How much would it bother you?

3) Would you feel threatened?

4) How would do you react?

While your partner talks on the phone, you....(complete the sentence)

When she finishes her phone call, she returns to what she had been doing before the phone call and doesn't tell you what it was all about.

5) How much would you want to know?

6) What would you do?

Navy_boy
12-02-03, 02:32 AM
1) How would it make you feel?

lost ...fire inside ,,,trying to know who is that ??

2) How much would it bother you?

lots ,,,

3) Would you feel threatened?

not that nuch

4) How would do you react?

i will keep it going till i know the matter

While your partner talks on the phone, you..I will keep thinking & guessing who would be the caller ??!!

When she finishes her phone call, she returns to what she had been doing before the phone call and doesn't tell you what it was all about.

5) How much would you want to know?

100% crazy to know ..

6) What would you do?

my own ways to get the questions in my mind answered ,,
:confused:

Enigma
12-02-03, 02:56 AM
1) How would it make you feel?

Umm..... maybe a bit uncomfortable and curious very curious but not suspicious.

2) How much would it bother you?

A bit not too much.

3) Would you feel threatened?

No. It's just a phonecall!

4) How would do you react?

I'd wait for him to finish then right away ask who it was.

While your partner talks on the phone, you await the sound of him saying Goodbye and evesdrop on him while he's talkin'.

5) How much would you want to know?

Name, Age, Workplace..... the works. Oh and WHY was she calling?

6) What would you do?

Nothing just bombard him with questions. :p

^^3aBaDY^^
12-02-03, 05:23 AM
First of all i wont have that issue and beside that i trust my partner.

Chunks !!

raffee
12-02-03, 05:32 AM
Your partner is in another room. The phone rings and you answer it. It's a voice of the opposite sex (you don't recognize it) and the caller wants to talk to your partner. It appears they are on a first name basis.

1) How would it make you feel?
If it was a call on the landline, then it wouldnt bother me in the least. If it was on his mobile however, it might make me a tad curious as to who it might be, but I would simply ask. Why should I let it bother me when I can simply ask who she is and what it is regarding?!

2) How much would it bother you? Like I said above, it wouldnt bother me all that much at all, since I have no problems with asking who she is.

3) Would you feel threatened? Not in the slightest. Dont you think its a tad premature for that?! I mean its just a phonecall FCOL.

4) How would do you react? Depending on what her response was, but if it was work-related then I wouldnt react at all, but if I felt that there might be something to worry about (say for instance, it was a girl who might be interested in my partner) then I would still pass on the phone and deal with my partner afterwards.

While your partner talks on the phone, I would probably prefer to be in the room, but that's only because of previous bad experience that led me to be distrustful in relationships. Generally speaking however, I am not so insecure as to be so prying.

5) How much would you want to know? Again, it depends on who the call was from. If it wasnt work-related then I would want to know (and rightly so, because I would expect the same from my partner).

6) What would you do? I would let my partner know that I dont really see the point of passing on his personal mobile phone number to a girl who might not have the purest of intentions, unless he felt that it would be fine for me to do the same.:D
Then, I would tell him that in future, she should expect a less cordial Raf on the phone, or he could expect a less cordial Raf in the evening.

MoonChild
12-02-03, 06:23 AM
Originally posted by raffee
Then, I would tell him that in future, she should expect a less cordial Raf on the phone, or he could expect a less cordial Raf in the evening.

:D LOL!

I don't need to take a quiz to know that I'm a jealous wench :p

DeSerTDesTroYeR
12-02-03, 09:06 AM
Your partner is in another room. The phone rings and you answer it. It's a voice of the opposite sex (you don't recognize it) and the caller wants to talk to your partner. It appears they are on a first name basis.

1) How would it make you feel?

Depends on the time? If its a regular calling time, i would wonder who it is.. probably smiling....:rolleyes:, because she knows she has some explaination to do. :p If it was not a regular time, I would ask what he want! :D if i found it a reasonable reason ..then I would tell call her...if not then tough luck :cool: ...but of course once i finsh the call i would tell her ..

2) How much would it bother you?

It wont bother me.... :) ...i'll be just wondering....hmmm

3) Would you feel threatened?

hehehe... not even close.

4) How would you react?

Call her and tell her there is a call for her from someone i dont know.

While your partner talks on the phone, I would go back do what i was doing. Unless it was a call not in a regular time then i would be sitting beside her worried as it must be something important.

When she finishes her phone call, she returns to what she had been doing before the phone call and doesn't tell you what it was all about.

5) How much would you want to know?

hmm...i expect her to tell me..right away....what that was about. If she doesnt then I would assume she needs to think about it...I would be quite curious ....

6) What would you do?

I'll be patient for as long as it is needed until she comes and tells me....as i am sure she is totally aware of how much i would be wondering about it.

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Overalll I wont doubt or mis-trust her after such call.... patience is gold :color:

Navigator
12-02-03, 12:34 PM
Your partner is in another room. The phone rings and you answer it. It's a voice of the opposite sex (you don't recognize it) and the caller wants to talk to your partner. It appears they are on a first name basis.

1) How would it make you feel?

stupid

2) How much would it bother you?

so much that i start rethinking of our relationship !!

3) Would you feel threatened?

No

4) How would do you react?

hung up the phone ,,then call her to know who the hell he was !!

While your partner talks on the phone, you....(complete the sentence) ( no way )

When she finishes her phone call, she returns to what she had been doing before the phone call and doesn't tell you what it was all about.

5) How much would you want to know?

everything ( though there would be no phone call ,coz i hung up)

6) What would you do?

go fishing !

Morbid_Angel69
14-02-03, 07:23 PM
Navigator thats a little harsh! And besides women dont like men controlling them and so if you did that to someone who had called to talk to your partner - then that is showing no respect at all.
Maybe it was someone from work....or maybe she was expecting a phone call from a business company abut something she wanted to purchase AS A SURPRISE!!!!!
who knows!!!
so u shouldnt jump to conclusions that fast!

X-press
15-02-03, 08:26 PM
My conclusion is:

Navy_boy: is jealous and someone to stay away if we get a phone call! :fire:

runnin' around: is a bit jalous, but let's be careful of calm waters.

^^3aBaDY^^: will not have such issue as maybe he doesn't have a phone :p

raffee: not jalous....slightly curious!

MoonChild: jalous type :angre: :)

Dede: too good to be true...100% jealousy-free!.

Navigator: definitely jalous!

X-press
15-02-03, 08:35 PM
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Answer these questions and we will tell you how jealous you are...;)

SCENARIO #2:

Your partner and you are at a party. Someone from the opposite sex keeps looking at him/her seductively.

1) How would it make you feel?

2) How much would it bother you?

3) Would you feel threatened?

4) How would do you react?

At the same party, you are both having a nice time: you dance together, you chat with your friends. Suddenly, your partner goes to dance with someone from the opposite sex in your group.

1) How would it make you feel?

2) How much would it bother you?

3) Would you feel threatened?

4) How would do you react?

selma
16-02-03, 08:23 AM
SCENARIO #1 (did not want to miss this)

Your partner is in another room. The phone rings and you answer it. It's a voice of the opposite sex (you don't recognize it) and the caller wants to talk to your partner. It appears they are on a first name basis.


1) How would it make you feel?
The first thing that will come into my mind will be his friend from work.. or a woman is perhaps asking for help..

2) How much would it bother you?
It would bother me so much..

3) Would you feel threatened?
Yes.. I would feel a 'little' bit threatened

4) How would do you react?
I will reat normal.. and ofcourse I would ask him to explain it to me

While your partner talks on the phone, you....(complete the sentence)

When she finishes her phone call, she returns to what she had been doing before the phone call and doesn't tell you what it was all about.

5) How much would you want to know?
I would want to know everything..

6) What would you do?
I could help..

selma
16-02-03, 08:37 AM
SCENARIO #2

Your partner and you are at a party. Someone from the opposite sex keeps looking at him/her seductively.

1) How would it make you feel?
Laugh at the woman staring at my partner.. making jokes..

2) How much would it bother you?
Actually it will depend.. if my partner will react to the moves of the other woman.. then definately it will bother me.. big time.. it will be more like a disrespective..

3) Would you feel threatened?
Not unless my partner shows interest and gives blue signal

4) How would do you react?
Get the hell out of there.. unless my partner ignores her..

At the same party, you are both having a nice time: you dance together, you chat with your friends. Suddenly, your partner goes to dance with someone from the opposite sex in your group.

1) How would it make you feel?
it depends on what type of a dancing..

2) How much would it bother you?
yes.. to some extent it will bother me

3) Would you feel threatened?
No I guess no

4) How would do you react?
it depends with the dance.. No touching dance.. no problem.. but touching moves... i will be very angry..

4-ever-young
16-02-03, 12:58 PM
SCENARIO #1:

Your partner is in another room. The phone rings and you answer it. It's a voice of the opposite sex (you don't recognize it) and the caller wants to talk to your partner. It appears they are on a first name basis.

1) How would it make you feel?
I would be cruious to know but i dont htink that i would be threathen by anyway

2) How much would it bother you?
depending on what time the call came..but i guess it wouldnt bother me much..just slightly!

3) Would you feel threatened?
no i wouldnt

4) How would do you react?
i would simply ask who called

While your partner talks on the phone, you i would probably try to be in the room just curious to know who he is reacting to the call

When she finishes her phone call, she returns to what she had been doing before the phone call and doesn't tell you what it was all about.

5) How much would you want to know?]i would like to know who called a friend,collegue etc

6) What would you do?Nothing cause there is no need to

4-ever-young
16-02-03, 01:06 PM
Your partner and you are at a party. Someone from the opposite sex keeps looking at him/her seductively.

1) How would it make you feel?
Jealous of course i wouldnt like it at all

2) How much would it bother you?it would bother me a lot to an extent that i will mention it to my partner..(just to let him know that i have noticed)

3) Would you feel threatened?
threatened no i wouldnt be

4) How would do you react?
i would ask my partner if he knows her and if he noticed that she is looking at him in that way...depending on his answer i will either start be suspcious or just let it pass

At the same party, you are both having a nice time: you dance together, you chat with your friends. Suddenly, your partner goes to dance with someone from the opposite sex in your group.

1) How would it make you feel?
i would not like it but it is just a dance and i hopefull would try to ignore what i am feeling

2) How much would it bother you?
not much i will feel something definetly but i wouldnt make it an issue.

3) Would you feel threatened?
no i wouldnt feel threatene just because of a dance

4) How would do you react?
if it really bothers me and i cant wipe the feeling away i would talk to my partner about it and sort it out..just be reversing the scenario and see how he takes it

raffee
16-02-03, 01:06 PM
Your partner and you are at a party. Someone from the opposite sex keeps looking at him/her seductively.

1) How would it make you feel? A lil ****ty at the person looking at my partner! Can she not tell he is taken???

2) How much would it bother you? It would bother me a bit.

3) Would you feel threatened? pah! not likely!!!:rolleyes:

4) How would do you react? I would probably be myself (which is a little stand-offish and self-assured)

At the same party, you are both having a nice time: you dance together, you chat with your friends. Suddenly, your partner goes to dance with someone from the opposite sex in your group.

1) How would it make you feel? He'd better have another place to sleep, cause he ain't coming home with me.

2) How much would it bother you? enough to kick him out for a while.

3) Would you feel threatened? no, but he can pee off!

4) How would do you react? I would continue to enjoy the night but when it is time to go home, he won't be coming with me!

X-press
17-02-03, 11:44 PM
Selma will you really be able to laugh at the woman staring seductively at your partner ? I would be myself so upset that if I had to laugh, it would be fake and my nervousness will show.

4-eva, it will not bother you if your partner leaves you and start dancing with a woman you don’t know ? As Selma says, it depends of the dance…what about if it is a slow dance or a hot salsa and they are both so much into each other that your partner forget your exist?

Raffee, your partner better not make any wrong moves or he will be in BIG TROUBLE with you ;)….your are a real tigress! ;)

selma
18-02-03, 07:24 AM
Originally posted by X-press
Selma will you really be able to laugh at the woman staring seductively at your partner ? I would be myself so upset that if I had to laugh, it would be fake and my nervousness will show.
yes i will laugh at her.. but only if my partner is not interested.. if he shows a slight interest in her then that is something else


Originally posted by X-press
4-eva, it will not bother you if your partner leaves you and start dancing with a woman you don’t know ? As Selma says, it depends of the dance…what about if it is a slow dance or a hot salsa and they are both so much into each other that your partner forget your exist?


If that is the case.. I would leave the party imediately.. go home lock the doors let him be outside with that woman.. for a long time

4-ever-young
18-02-03, 09:13 AM
Originally posted by X-press

4-eva, it will not bother you if your partner leaves you and start dancing with a woman you don’t know ? As Selma says, it depends of the dance…what about if it is a slow dance or a hot salsa and they are both so much into each other that your partner forget your exist?


Yes in that case that is a different story!

DeSerTDesTroYeR
25-02-03, 11:20 PM
Originally posted by X-press
My conclusion is:

[b]Dede: too good to be true...100% jealousy-free!.



ooh..come on...i said i would be wondering and curious..:D

Navy_boy
25-02-03, 11:40 PM
Answer these questions and we will tell you how jealous you are...;)

SCENARIO #2:

Your partner and you are at a party. Someone from the opposite sex keeps looking at him/her seductively.

1) How would it make you feel?

not relax

2) How much would it bother you?

lots

3) Would you feel threatened?

no coz i trust her

4) How would do you react?

go & ask him emparissing question which makes him stop it

At the same party, you are both having a nice time: you dance together, you chat with your friends. Suddenly, your partner goes to dance with someone from the opposite sex in your group.

1) How would it make you feel?

angry

2) How much would it bother you?

enough much to sop her

3) Would you feel threatened?

emm,,,get to know the reason first

4) How would do you react?

getting her reasons for doing that & punch her

Bimzoori
05-03-03, 06:32 AM
I believe jealousy is a very natural result of love.. not necessarily love of husband/wife.. but also love of your family/ country/ religion/ etc...

when you love something you execute a possesive behaviour towards this thing.. and you wouldnt allow anyone to touch or degrade or misuse that thing.. I know some people who love reading and buying books to teh extent that they dont feel comfortable lending their books even to their close friends.. another example would be how mad and furious we get if anyone tries to degrade our religion...

Theer are two types of jealousy.. in Arabic we distinguish btwn these two types by using two different prepositions : "min" and "3ala":

ÛíÑÉ ãä

and

ÛíÑÉ Úáì

the difference btwn the two is that the first type of jealousy (ÛíÑÉ ãä) is the one in which you're jealous of a person lets say because he has something which you dont have... this type of jealousy leads to hatred and envy... or to put it simply, it is what we would call being envious towards other people..

The other type (ÛíÑÉ Úáì) is considered a good characteristic.. and everyone of us has a percentage of this type running in our blood.. so its not necessarily btwn husband and wife.. eg, fathers have gheera towards their daughters, so they would be careful not to expose them to situations that might harm them (ie, being protective).. some people have a very high dose of this jealousy to the extent that they would control what you wear, where you go, and who you're talking to.. this can be very annoying when the person exagerates it...

Neena
05-03-03, 07:30 AM
Originally posted by X-press
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Answer these questions and we will tell you how jealous you are...;)

SCENARIO #1:

Your partner is in another room. The phone rings and you answer it. It's a voice of the opposite sex (you don't recognize it) and the caller wants to talk to your partner. It appears they are on a first name basis.

1) How would it make you feel?

2) How much would it bother you?

3) Would you feel threatened?

4) How would do you react?

While your partner talks on the phone, you....(complete the sentence)

When she finishes her phone call, she returns to what she had been doing before the phone call and doesn't tell you what it was all about.

5) How much would you want to know?

6) What would you do?
1. I would wonder who the caller would be!!

2. It would bother more a lil for the start as I still don;t know if the caller is someone i know or its someone he knows either from work or anything I will need to hear or know the full story to really get PISSED!

3. Hmm not not really ... i will only feel threatend if my partner acts funny!

4. As i said, it really all depends on how much the whole thing is. If he acts funny than that would give me a reason to feel bad and all . And one thing would for sure lead to the other!!

5. For sure I would want to know badly ... and it would be a good sign if he comes up to me and tells me about the call. But if he does not for whatever reason he may have... i wouldn;t take it in a good way.. but i would go ahead and ask him about the call...!

6. I would Face him and ask him about the caller.. and it better be something good.

In my opinion, if a man has nothing to hid from his woman he would for sure let her know about it right away, not only about a phone call, but if we wereto be in a resturant and than a woman walks in and happens to wave at him i do expect him to either introduce me to her if he would go and greet her or tells me about her if he is not going to say hi to her.... as if he does not bother doing that I woul for sure take it very personally!