well this is for all my fans :).....................

one for the road till next time (maybe), or it may be the last..........

Regardless of the type of relationship u may have had(being marriage, affairs,bf/gf etc ), i have always thought manageing managing money is a pain in the neck. :D ...............

This is especially true if one person makes a lot more money than the other and ends up feeling like a meal ticket at times..............

ok ppl dont tell me this is not true .......becouse in many cases it is....................... and between all of u and myself :D :gap: it haas been for me anyway thats history..........................

but dont u agree boys and girls, ladies and gentelmen..........thatif one is less financially secure than the other, that other partner at some point take u forgranted and problems start to arrise............

i mean eg during my engagment my ex fiancea used to take cash out from my wallet and i realised that once u open the door it never closes....................am not saying that the women dont do that i belive that it works both ways.........................

its a common scenario---one person in a relationship makes much more than the other and often ends up footing the bill for many of your outings and activities together. regardless of which role you play, it is important to nip in the bud any possible problems that could develop from a large gap in income level......................


well tell me what u think i have seen too many of these scenarios..................................

:sorry: :lost:

It can definitely strain a relationship if both parties don't agree on money management issues. Almost any arrangement can work if they DO agree that it's the right way.

I've been in both positions, and it seems that disagreement on money issues is related to communication problems in general - that is, if you have good communication with your partner you will work out the money issues and it won't be a problem. Poor communication, and any issues remain unsolved...

Very interesting topic Jawhar..That is the problem when you open your heart to someone...you wont take any chances of not doing all you can to please the other person. But if the other person share's the same feeling with you than he should not take an advantage,otherwise, it would sound like he is there only for your money and not for you in person.

So if I was in your shoe I'd seat down with him/her and talk about it frankly. Ofcourse I mean here when you see things have crossed the borders!


KOA