well u cant expect that me..Thug4Life have a problem!!
but i really do..and i need a very urgent help...plzzzz
help me?
ok..whats my problem!
when ever i see i girl on the street i cant stop looking at her!...i cant turn my head..my neck...my body ...away from the seen....specially if she is beautiful!!!
HELP..S.O.S..... :D
:D LOL

AWWWW..hehehe..poor Thug4Life seems like you have a huge delima.....hmmm..all i can tell you to do is close your eyes and think of blood shooting out of your eyes if you were to open them and see a girl..>LOL..
<teasing bro>
Maybe the shabab will have a solution for you..
yallah bu-byee,
WAWDOOO

Get yourself a girl ! (J/K) ;)

Mann, u sound freakyyy! OK, Try to fight you mind and body. Turn the other way round. Don't let the negative bit of your brain defeat you. Besides, I'm sure ur not bad at all ( i hope);P. I think ur speaking Angle Devil here. It all comes back to one thing. Which are you gonna let to win ??
& it's all up to and depends on you too.


Do I make any sense here ? If not, then i'm sure one day , someday, maybe day, ishallah day u'll come up with ur own sol.

Good Luck!
*****************
Ilhaam AL-Maskery

oolaa olala!!


boy

u have ..i think ...which OLOGY.?

ohh Thug4Life.. well .. might be the same problem here :P but i guess i am much better than u ohh cause ..emm .. think about it why .. i am not a bad guy...i can switch my face away but i caryy thinking about deep things after that !!.. aste`3fer allah !.. a3ooth billah .. mata bes ilwaa7id yitzewweg 3alshaan yittigi ilsher :p.. man i got u a solution.. try to find a girl to love her truly..then whenever u see anyother girl.. u would just remember that you got a girl who is waiting for u .. e7m.. i guess !!

well most of the solutions were not practical or provides me partial relieve!...but yet...I still suffer!
hey about the gal thing...(revelutional)...well another problem in me that m greedy!....I want em all..as they say in that Pokemon thing...GOTTA CATCH EM ALL....LOL
HEY HEY am not a bad guy/// AM I?

Well I think you need some female friends. I used to behave just like you until I met some gorgeous female students in my course. It started with sitting together in the lecture theaters and then developed to doing our course works. Now we can go out to eat, watch a movie, or just hang about in the city center. Now I don't care if I see a any girl just passing by because my friends are even cooler.

Well, This is in England but I am not quite sure what do while at home :)

where are you living??

By the way, I admit that my solution could be seen by many as siya3ah !!!!

Nizwani....i dont think that what u r suggesting implies that u r sai3...it is just a way of looking at things...
and who knows maybe thug4life will find that this maight be a possiblilty....

personally thug4life i cant help u because as u know i am a gal but i hope that u will fins a soultion to ur problem soon :D

habit always over rule nature!
well....friendships with galz...well Mr nazwani...I allready tried that!... :D but the thing is that my human nature toward such a thing is extremly high!...i men the looking thing...I feel like if I turn my head away ive lost the gift of enjoying extraordinary beauty!..
who knows maybee i didnt get the right friends as u have yaaa nazwani!....care for an exchange! :D
4ever young....Hummmm...who r u?

well, your situation is compromising then, I just hope that you can stand up and hold your head up.

Hay,

I have a bit different thing going on with me. After being in the States and having gutts to ask anybody over there for dance, date, or dinner. Now, I can't even ask a girl which is waiting for me to ask her out. I had this problem last night as well before. I just don't know how do they ask girls over here.

oh, come on munaliom, how sad :)

you sounded like a spoiled baby, what's wrong with you guys why don't you just grow up a little bit and be more mature and realistic!!!

I mean how could you manage to leave your country for years in which you missed your family, friends and tiny things that were very important to you. And now, after few years abroad you came home feeling touched for not being able to ask a girl out.

Ridicules

nzwani,

It is nice to go to my bacground for a bit. I guess that you are missing couple things in you culture.
Is it acceptable to ask the girl out? I mean I don't want to do a thing behind the bushes. I would not like to ask her out and at the same time be scared of her being seen with me which makes the date ended in trouble for her.

I meant that I can ask her out with no fear with no commetment of getting her married ( I am looking for firendship.... Just a friendship no more than that). Someone I can talk to.

I can do like you finding someone in my class/work and start talking to her, but I have to be careful of being seen with her outside that class, and I can't go out for a coffee with her.

I guess that I am talking to the wall what the point to explain my point of view to you while you have brought up differently.

and Thanks for calling me ridicules

Is it necessarily to attack somebody because he/she has different opinions and views than us?!!

you said// "..........I guess that I am talking to the wall what the point to explain my point of view to you while you have brought up differently........"

I say//
No Man, you are not talking to a WALL but to a highly educated and open minded guy. You asked me not to jump too high because I descried you as a spoiled baby. I am not jumping at all despite being called a WALL!!

you said// "..........I guess that you are missing couple things in you culture......."

I say//
I don't know exactly what you meant by saying that. According to you I am missing couple of things in my culture (life), that's fine because ALLAH is the only one who has The Integrity and we as humans can't always achieve everything.
By the way, I have been in England for about 5 years with few to come. I managed to travel to many countries in which I had the chance to explore different cultures.

you said// ".......and Thanks for calling me ridicules........"

I say//
Did I ??
It wasn't meant to you but to the current situation in Sablah. Have a look at the following titles (read them) to have an idea how frustrating it is to find out that high percentage of our youngsters are more interested in less important stuff (or silly stuff) rather than being able to discuss high profile issues.

I want a girl.
Thailand or Dubai?
girl end of the month period day.
valentine's day is coming!
what do u think about KISS.

At the end, I do apologize if you find this post nonsense.

This is very interesting.
As a woman, i have to let you know that it is being totally disrespectful to us women when guys act this way. I wish i could just go up to them and slap them on the face. That should make them feel better.
We women are not objects, we are human beings. It is very sad that men canot control themselves, as if they were animals. This is how low we think of you when you stare at us. We think you must be a total looser. If you think you will attract a girl with this kind of behavior, please think again, you couldn't be more wrong!

A very realistic answer..that was the real good answer that i was looking for!....does it really worth it from us guys stearing at gals...!!!...is this the way it should be in our relation with women!?
I clap very high for that answer
But hey wait!?...U didnt solve my problem?! LOL :D
P.s. Mr nazwani...is my topic:
why do boys go to dubai that silly?????!
well...i was just trying to tuch on one of the majore serious problems that our community is affected now days!...to rise up the level of attention of its dangers!
waiting for ur comment brother!


[Edited by Thug4Life on 02-06-2001 at 09:02 PM]

sorry nazwani now i know which topic u meant LOL.....
No needs for ur comment ;)

Originally posted by Thug4Life
habit always over rule nature!
well....friendships with galz...well Mr nazwani...I allready tried that!... :D but the thing is that my human nature toward such a thing is extremly high!...i men the looking thing...I feel like if I turn my head away ive lost the gift of enjoying extraordinary beauty!..
who knows maybee i didnt get the right friends as u have yaaa nazwani!....care for an exchange! :D
4ever young....Hummmm...who r u?

what can i say, ya'7i inta rajul shrgi ku7 !!

and nzwani, it different in the uk...ppl are always in their no-care mood or at least seem to be like that. but wait when u get to edgware road...its like being at home. Lazim ni'3uth el ba9ar ya shabaab ;) that way u'll save your hearts from heart-aches !

Originally posted by noor3147
This is very interesting.
As a woman, i have to let you know that it is being totally disrespectful to us women when guys act this way. I wish i could just go up to them and slap them on the face. That should make them feel better.
We women are not objects, we are human beings. It is very sad that men canot control themselves, as if they were animals. This is how low we think of you when you stare at us. We think you must be a total looser. If you think you will attract a girl with this kind of behavior, please think again, you couldn't be more wrong!

u go sister ! keep on watching Oprah ;))

Originally posted by Thug4Life
sorry nazwani now i know which topic u meant LOL.....
No needs for ur comment ;)


no comment.

It's probably cos you have been out of the country and learnt to act one way so it's hard to come back and act another way again.
heres a neat idea,just imagine that beautiful girl you see,without her makeup,unwashed hair,and just lounging around the house. you never know it might help...or just make you laff..who knows lol

just before I get a back lash for this...I wasn't being sexist...cos I'm a girl myself......peace

well....do u want me hate all tha galz or what ;)
mmmmm...any ways good try

The solution is get marry as quick as possible.

heheh, traeuak, nice tip.

which reminds me of something. There was this documentary on tv about men and women trying to change into the opposite sex's clothes just for one day. ya3ni, guzy dressing as girlz, and girlz as guyz...and that must go for behaviour too. Now, i'm not saying its right, but just to show u how the mentality changes immediately by simply changing the physical appearance.....

the men were happy with their new look as women...they thought they actually looked attractive! (mind u, "they thought they did"....i have no idea why!!)

the women were so insecure without their makup and accessories, and started acting like those cheap quality m'3azilchiya ! U c, makeup, and all that is just one of the extra weapons of Eve. what can i say.....if the men felt good about wearing it, even though, excue me, they looked like gargoyles, with all due respect, i can't imagine why would the girls not just flaunt it. And therefore, why would the guys not turn heads, like our friend thug.

The only solution as i suggested b4, is '3ath el ba9ar. I know, its hard. But its very important, maybe u don't think its important now, but many ppl find it hard to stop "ba9ba9a" even though they r married. Thats sad. Its hard to just switch. U must TRAIN urself....wu tikraar yi3alim el eeeeeeeeeh ya 3yaal???....e shu6ar ofcourse ;)

R.Online......U r unique ;)
hehheheheeheeeee
mmmm
what can I say!.....Nothing

i'll take it as a compliment thug ;)
cheers !

I think that you were brave enough to see that looking at girls as a problem....where as other guys Dont....they dont even ask themsleves why am i doing this??

I know that some girls crave for attention but u have to keep in mind that not all of them are that way..and there are some girls who are respecful.

I am not saying that guys shouldnt look ok it is natural for guys to look at a girl no matter what simply coz she is what she is....A GIRL

But Guys shouldnt stare like it the first time they have EVER seen a girl...

So Thug4life i admire you and insha allah just keep on trying and i hope that one day u will find the solution...

well 4ever young..thanx alote for what u just said...am going 2 try my best to stop this habit..GRADUALLY ofcourse
and mostly I agree about what u said above...
Take Good Care of Ur self!

Thug4life..

Thankx a lot for getting my point and agreeing with me...
I wish you and all the members all the best...

Cheers:)