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Bismillahilra7maanalra7eem...
Assalamu3alaikum to all
I wish my Arabic was better than it is, because I would have liked to do this in Arabic.
Im not writing this thread to get responses, in fact it would be best if it was left as a mere message, but I didnt think it fair to leave without saying thankyou and goodbye.
I wont be returning to this place, not next week, not ever, and I wont be coming back under an alias either (besides, Im sure you can pick my writing style and attitude in a second).
Ive made a decision based on some experiences Ive had of late, and I think it will be easier for all of those concerned if I left them in peace.
I would like to leave an open apology to all of those members whom I may have offended in my time here... it was mostly unintentional (unless provoked).
I want to thank those members who truly impacted on my life (you know who you are), and also thank you for giving me some respite in a time when I needed to be in my own world.
Goodbye sabla. Its been fun.
DeSerTDesTroYeR
08-01-03, 05:26 PM
what the!:fire: .....with all due respect....no way i can not ...just not reply!!...
whats going on!.....for sure....might no get a reply.........but....
alllllll i can say...........sabla..welcomes you ..forever.....you made a decision...forever as well..........for that ..sabla..will cherish your membership.....and we allll wont mind if you let go of your vow :D
hmm...now who did that :eek: ...bad bad bad.....anyway........maybe its for the good....but again.....it shouldnt end this way........
Hope to see you back..soon...no matter what you said....:)
best of luck....... and having you here in sabla for sure was such great bonus...which we will always look forward to gain...:)
fe aman Allah... = in Gods protection.
What the ****!!!
Raffee what is this ?? You know I thought today there was something wrong, you weren't yourself, but I didn't think you'd go and do something like THIS!!
What did you say on friday?? "I like sabla". Raffee, I think I almost hate you right now! :angre:
We know life isn't great right now, but this??!!
Ive made a decision based on some experiences Ive had of late, and I think it will be easier for all of those concerned if I left them in peace.
I don't recall you offending anyone!! On the contrary, you've been a gift to the sabla ever since you joined! (And it's not just me who thinks so either!)
Honestly I'm :angre: :angre: !
Raff, what happened? We had a trip planned too!
Okay, now I"m gonna break something. :fire:
4-ever-young
08-01-03, 10:27 PM
hmm Raffee what a shame to see u leave in such a way..but i think we all deserve to know why u took such a decision especially that it is as clear as day that you love the sabla so what makes u want to leave it now for good?
raffee sister its really a shame to hear that.......... what made u make this deciation ......... i said i will live as well but coz all of u i returned coz i missed u so whyu r living ......... did someone said sth bad to u there have to be a reason 4 that dear ............ if that was me then i'm really sorry ..........:rolleyes:
Shinoda LP
08-01-03, 11:59 PM
I am not sure if it is right for me to say anything at this ocassion, but ... I'm new here and I've enjoyed reading your replies to a few posts ... other than briefly having a small discussion with you about ur dreams ...
Been a nice experience so far with you ... I (guess we) hope you reconsider :)
Ive done what i can over MSN trying to get you change your mind, but its your choise, at least we can still talk on MSN :)
Wish you best of luck, and the sabla is always open to welcome you again when ever you feel like it ;)
it's surprising to see members JUST leave like that!! i dont understand how one can do that , as to me it only means that we meant nothing to them!! i know u might think..ah...this is only a forum! who cares!! but to me..i feel that all sabla members are part of my family now,..and it makes me sad to see some leave!!
anyways..it's your choice in the end!! but you dissapoint me!! i thought you were stronger than that!! :sorry:
i refuse to say goodbye!
:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
I cant believe you got me to reply...but I mean, how can you say that????????????????????????????????????
OF COURSE THIS SABLA MEANT SOMETHING TO ME, IT ALWAYS WILL. I love all of its members like family.
But like I said, I have made this decision for the sake of a few of those members, so as not to bother them.
(I still cant believe you got me to post! PUNK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
Since Im here, I have to thank those who replied, pmed and emailed. You made me cry. RA, I love you girl. (I love all of you people I really do).
and because of a few silly members you decide to leave??? that's not a good enough excuse!!
this way you're only giving them the satisfaction they ever so wanted!! i expected you to prove them worng, but i guess I was Wrong!!! :(
Why you little.....!
ROFL.
Will you just let me think?
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH HHH! I really need to shout right now!
DeSerTDesTroYeR
09-01-03, 01:06 AM
well...gather your kids...around...tell me lets play the shouting game..:D
that might help...welcome back..:rolleyes: ....
:eek:
Who said I was back????
Let me guess... it was BI wasnt it! That boy just cant keep quiet for 2 secs.
i DID not!!!! alright.,,,blame the por BOY for everything!! :sorry:
but i wish it were true and you stayed!! ...i really though you were gonna be pne of the members to reach 3000 posts b4 the end of the year!! oh well..too bad!! not gonna happen now!! :weep: :sorry: :(
Wanderer
09-01-03, 01:20 AM
Originally posted by raffee
Goodbye sabla
That's crazy talk. :eek:
Take a day off, but don't just leave 'cause somebody is bugging you (or you're bugging somebody).
DeSerTDesTroYeR
09-01-03, 01:20 AM
ok..i think that comfirms she is back...banzaiiiiiiiiiiiii :D ....
DeSerTDesTroYeR
09-01-03, 01:38 AM
ok..i think that comfirms she is back...banzaiiiiiiiiiiiii :D ....
Blue_Chi
09-01-03, 02:02 AM
Hey, you decided to leave when I just came?!?!
COME ON THAT IS NOT FAIR!
PLEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAASE STAY!!
I don't really know you, but you seem like a nice person as everyone is begging you to stay! You should stay, believe me!
;)
If she does stay, then all of you have to vote for me, OK?
But like I said, I have made this decision for the sake of a few of those members, so as not to bother them.
Excuse me? You're ready to leave for a "few" members sake, but you won't stay when the majority of us REALLY want you to stay??
What ever happened to justice??
You know what, **** those members that don't want you here, WE DO.
Seriously, I feel the same way as Boy I. It's like our friendship meant NOTHING.
Raff, I think you were a bit rash doing this. Will you reconsider? It's bad enough you got me cursing all over the sabla, ruining my "good girl" image.
Please? :weep:
Hey raff, common plzzzzzzzz you have to reconsider!!
It's been great fun having you around and I really liked you....
Plz don't make me cry!:weep:
See I can't help it, :weep: :weep:
Take a break and think about it again, I'm sure that you won't be able to stay away from us...
Muscati
09-01-03, 09:18 AM
I don't understand topics people start when they want to say goodbye. Why must they make a deal out of it? If you wanna leave, leave. If you want to stay, stay. If you have something to say, say it. If you've got an axe to grind, grind it.
You'll stay in touch with the people you like on msn won't you? Then what's with this "goodbye for good topic"? It's tarnishes the image I had of you.
Goodbye topics are for kids and people who think too much of themselves.
Take it back.
That's the most sensible thread Ive read in a **** long time Mux.
My respect for you grows everyday. Thanks for being honest.
Thanks for reminding me.
Youre right.
I take it back. It was a stupid thread to start. But I was genuine in my intentions when I did it. I thought it would be rude to leave without goodbyes.
However, goodbyes are not for friends, or grown-ups. They are far too permanent and definate, when reality shows us the opposite.
By the way, I dont have all the people I like on MSN. Perhaps it would be wise to get them now.
And, about the drama queen label, youre not the first (and I doubt that you will be the last) to call me that. Although, I think its a tad unfair... its only on occasions when I feel like wallowing that it surfaces.
I desperately needed to wallow yesterday. Im still wallowing today. But, tomorrow is another day.
I TAKE IT BACK. (thanks people)
Cheers Mux.
DeSerTDesTroYeR
09-01-03, 10:04 AM
now thats ...what we all expect.....well said...mux..:rolleyes:
Told ya! Didnt i?
Alright she just wanted to know how many poeple out there liked her :D :D
Now get back to work girl stop wasting time will ya!
This topic is Closed!
Ah! i don't hold the possition anymore :sorry: :angre: :6: :fire: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
Hey now girl! I already knew I was loved. But my email got flooded, as did my pm box. Couldnt let the fans down now could I???:D
DeSerTDesTroYeR
09-01-03, 11:20 AM
mashallah...thats simply...shows you.......how much people...care...hmm...email...i didnt think of that...:rolleyes: :p
ooh well....some1...but it wasnt U..this time..:wink: it was B.I...we thank him..:D ........his post had the biggest impact....no wonder..his and artist..mashallah..:)
Dark Project
09-01-03, 11:51 AM
If everyone are asking you to stay and you quoted that because of members you are leaving ???
I wonder who are these members ? And What triggered you to think of leaving unless some of them have really hurt you ?
Looking at the members Im the only odd one here . Is it meeee?
Have I showed you my darkside ? I dont recall ;)
Any way dont let little things and little people change your mind , stick around and lift your chin up and say: " Talk to the Hand "
DeDe i ment i told her that she would stay and wont leave!
Anyways she wouldnt have been able to keep her hands off the sabla :rolleyes:
DeSerTDesTroYeR
09-01-03, 12:04 PM
dark project: ehehehee!! :D "talk to the hand" :eek: ..isnt that quoted from Ali G "the movie" ..haha anyway.....its exactly..what should be said..:cool:
some1: yup....your right...with that ...point...:D
lol. lmao.rofl. ok enough. i cant take much more.
Talk to the hand huh? Believe it or not, Ive used that once or twice in my time, but only jokingly. I could never be so patronising.
Thanks again everyone.
How abt a joke now?:)
grasshopper
09-01-03, 12:35 PM
glad you are not leaving. seemed a bit sad to just spit the dummy and strop off. Thought you were above that sort of behaviour.. Like Mux said. was a bit of a drama queen thing to do. Welcome back anyway raf.
am glad you changed you mind raffee!! ;) :) and dont you dare do some thing like this again! :D :)
Dark Project
09-01-03, 12:36 PM
raffee
A drug addict asked another one " Can you see the Ant on that wall ?
He replied " Ofcourse I can see the ant but where is the wall ?
I hope this will bring a smile to you :)
Glad you changed your mind Raffee...like you said, wallowing is for yesterday ;)
Welcome back....your Sabla public needs you:)
Thanks Hoppy. By the way, did you happen to see a fuschia dummy fly past? I cant seem to find it:duh:
BI and mim, thanks for the welcome back. Really, its all your fault that Im back BI, so if you ever tire of me, you have only yourself to blame.:D
If I hadnt come back to edit some horrible posts I made yesterday, I would never have seen your infuriating suggestion that I never really cared.
DP, lol. youre a sweetheart.;)
I been there kid............but seriously shake it off......like water off a duck's BUTT..
please stay.......I am very impressed by your posts......and insights......and would miss them terribly.......
I even prefer them to hearing my wife's nagging.......
say it ain't so.........bounce back kiddo!!!!!
besides you have a duty to enlighten others.........for example...ME
Ok.......nuff said........get your ### back in here..
cheers
fatak
FATAK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Where have you been my man? :):):)
Was vacuuming earlier, and you popped into my mind all of a sudden...in the only image I have of you, with those cool ***** sunnies on.:P Wondered where you'd got to.
I should be saying welcome back to YOU! Now go reply to your interview. We've all been waiting.
(By the way, thanks for the kind words. I can nag too though, believe you me... Im even known to be antsy at times).
:wink:
DeSerTDesTroYeR
09-01-03, 01:51 PM
alright..raffee..i think your plan is working...little more..and you'll reach to the 1st mile stone..:rolleyes: :D
:eek: :eyes: DD! How could you say such a thing?!!!!
:weep: Hoppy, quick, there goes another one. Its red this time.
I didnt need this thread to get to elite status. Am already there...:rolleyes:
DeSerTDesTroYeR
09-01-03, 02:58 PM
welll of course...not...:D .....
Hey raff, I knew you wouldn't just leave us...
See this is me smiling:D
gosh and i was wondering where all the light came from! ;)
Dr N.
you really are wonderful you know that.
thank you... from the bottom of my heart.
Ahhh that's sooo sweet of you raffee, now you're gonna make me cry..
:weep:
I'm really glad that you're here..:)
Arabian Princess
09-01-03, 03:41 PM
happy to read you changed your mind .. I knew that someone like you wouldnt easily leave sabla .. its impossible :)
Originally posted by DeSerTDesTroYeR
alright..raffee..i think your plan is working...little more..and you'll reach to the 1st mile stone..:rolleyes: :D
look who's talkin!!! :duh:
...
anyways..raff..that's what am here for!! to make members feel so bad about leaving that they never think of it again!! lol ;) ..am not a moderator for nothing!! :D
Arby, thanks dear:). It feels wonderful to be so loved.
BI, dont take all the credit. I got one particular email that touched me so much I just couldnt leave. :weep:
(but, you did play a part in my staying too:p )
Now go moderate! and buy a car godammit!
DeSerTDesTroYeR
09-01-03, 05:02 PM
:eek: hehehee!!!....raffee now that was funny!!..... B.I ....:rolleyes: hehehe!!!
~ sorry!....had to laugh ONLINE!!! ~ :D
Originally posted by raffee
and buy a car godammit!
what's this got to do with anything!!! :duh:
besides..let me get my driving lisence first!!! :D
raffee is this a game to sense who loves you in the sabla and who doesn't ?
No actually, Icey. I already know who loves me thank God. I also know who is intimidated by me:rolleyes: .
BI, ask DD why i made that comment.:D
Ice Tea you know Janet Jackson said once,"If you dont' have anything nice to say don't talk."
Sorry, but no one picks on my sis.
Hi five girl!!!!!:D
Cant wait to party with you in April. We are gonna paint the town red (or how abt hot pink?) What do you say RA?!
raffee good to know that, so I guss I'm one of the few members who love you and need you around. Now can you let the flying bired stop and return to sabla.
To be honest with you I find it silly reason to leave sabla for the sake of some members, I thought u are strong lady and can stand against a mountain or maybe you have your own personal reasons you prefer to hide them from me and the rest.
RR no need to jump into conclusions, and what I said is really nice but it depends on who read it.
el7ilwa
09-01-03, 10:50 PM
Mmmmmm Where I'm:lost: :confused: I can't understand any thing here???? What's going on Raffe??? R u really leaving or this is 9adooh like amoOor's one???? Just I need to know:lost: .
rofl
Dubai won't know what hit it , I'll tell ya that!
Ice man, well what can I say? We just got her back and ............you know. ;)
Im staying put for now el7ilwa. My crew need me here.:cool:
Ok so this thread can be closed now, right raffee ?
el7ilwa
09-01-03, 11:08 PM
Oh just come on Raffe U can take a short break as I did, but don't leave the sabla 4 ever, cauz we gonna miss u & miss ur sweet threads.... Just think about it girl & remember that all the members love u here:color:
Ooooooooooi ice tea not yet :D
Well, welcome back raffee.
i think you needed a whole day to clear the flood you got eh? :D
Well nice to hear that you are back and looking forward for your posts and buggings :rolleyes:
Melbourne Rocks Sydney!
Cheers
:color:
:eek: ...In your fantastical delusional world maybe, Evilio!!! Melbourne has bugger-all over the elegant, alive, happening Sydney.
You have nothing godammit. NOTHING in Melbourne, apart from a few good pubs I hear... but as Im not a drinker, that bears absolutely no significance to me whatsoever.
Now go and change universities. I will be waiting at Sydney uni to see ya;).
(..and thanks for the welcome back:))
I said LOCKED!!!!
give me my power back :D :D
I wanna change the sabla colors :D :D
Raffee, we all just love ya and cant leave ya!
Have i made my self clear?
No everyone get back to work will ya!
Hmm they told me that when some1 gets upset she looks better :D :rolleyes:
Gooosh she has a big mouth this raffee :p , we'll need a new thread for this thingie or am gonna get kicked by thug for off topic!!
X-press
10-01-03, 02:14 AM
Where was I all this time???....How come I didn't see this thread yesterday :lost: When I noticed 3 pages in this Sabla, I thought something went wrong with my sight...then I read "Goodbye for good" from raffee :eyes: ...now there is definitely something wrong!!
Sweet raffee, who on earth could have made you feel so bad that you took the decision to leave this place? :( I personally never felt that you had any serious confrontation with any members here...and I am still puzzled!
You leaving the sabla is like a man losing his leg...you are the strength, the courage, the intelligence...simply a " great woman" :D
I am happy the members showed you how much you are loved and convinced you to change your mind. If it can make you feel better, I give you today the first "VIP - lifetime membership card" :)
DeSerTDesTroYeR
10-01-03, 02:24 AM
wow!...this is almost one of the fastest growing threads....:D .........well....alright.............it all good....lets start posting again!!...YAhooooooooo :rolleyes:
Originally posted by X-press
You leaving the sabla is like a man losing his leg...you are the strength, the courage, the intelligence...simply a " great woman" :D
I am happy the members showed you how much you are loved and convinced you to change your mind. If it can make you feel better, I give you today the first "VIP - lifetime membership card" :)
Sweet Xpress,
Your goodness is overwhelming sometimes.:) You make me blush.
Thank you dear. I look forward to the day that we can chat in person inshallah.
Wow, what an honour!! A VIP lifetime membership card. Do you need a photo of me? and may I have it laminated please???:D
I think I cannot accept such an honour until you have been given it first. You are most deserving of it sis.
Bye for now.
Raf
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